Marry Yourself — Without Permission
A 3 months self-love revolution for women ready to stop abandoning themselves.
By Julie Baranski @thetantrafeminist
"Julie's training is one of the greatest things that happened to me.
Very smart and powerful" - Katia
The invitation
Hi, I am Julie Baranski, founder of Feminists in the City and The Tantra Feminist ! I’m looking for 5 women to join me as Founding Members in Marry Yourself, a 3-month self-love revolution beginning January 12, 2026 (english or french).
This is a rite of passage for women ready to stop feeling unworthy, release their inner critic, and finally live with the joy, peace and confidence that comes from belonging to yourself — completely.
This is a fully online experience.
Optional Live Retreat in France, March 2026.
Who this is for ?
This is for the woman who :
- Feels like she’s never enough — no matter how much she achieves
- Constantly chases love, praise, or validation
- Wants to stop abandoning herself inside relationships, work, or perfectionism
- Has done therapy or self-help, but still feels stuck
- Is ready to stop begging for crumbs — and become the love she’s been waiting for
What you will experience :
- Build a relationship with yourself so solid, no one else gets to decide your worth
- Rewire your nervous system for unshakable self-worth
- End the cycle of shame, perfectionism, and emotional abandonment
- Feel pleasure, peace, and ecstasy — even in rage, grief, or uncertainty
- Own your voice, your body, your soul’s truth — unapologetically
- Freedom from the inner critic running your life
- Be held in sacred sisterhood — you don’t do this alone
The Marry Yourself Package
The 1:1 Private container
- 13 Weekly 1:1 Coaching Sessions (1h30)
- Voice Note Support between sessions & Accountability
→ So you’re held, guided, and never alone — even when resistance hits.
→ This isn’t surface work. I won’t let you fail.
The Sisterhood Container
- Group Coaching Calls
→ Live and recorded. Be mirrored, seen, and activated in safe sisterhood
- Weekly Lectures + Practices
→ Live and recorded. So you feel self-love, not just understand it
- Live Group Ceremony + Integration Call
→ Commitment. Transformation.
- WhatsApp Sisterhood Group
→ Sisterhood support. You don’t do this alone.
Programme :
The engagement : awakening into total self-love
Week 1: The Vision – Fall in love with you
Week 2: I Belong to Me – Safety, love + trust in your own body
Week 3: Obstacles to Devotion – Transmuting self-sabotage
The vow : breaking the spell
Week 4: Break the Family Spell – End inherited pain patterns
Week 5: Become Your Own Woman – You don’t need permission
Week 6: Reclaim Your Wholeness – Light, shadow, inner child — all of you
Week 7: Free the Inner Critic – She no longer runs your life
The marriage : devotion era
Week 8: Devotion in Emotional Storms – Ecstasy through it all
Week 9: Confidence as Erotic Power – Unshakable, alive, embodied
Week 10: Your most Loving Self Leads – She moves the world
Week 11: Choose Yourself. Forever. – This is the vow
Week 12: The Ceremony – You Marry Yourself
Week 13: The Honeymoon – Pleasure leads the show
My method : deep and lasting
This is not coaching, it’s a rite of passage — with real tools. I combine:
- Neuroscience-based coaching — to rewire your nervous system
- Somatic + embodiment practices — to anchor the truth in your body
- Mindful Feminism — to move beyond the patriarchy’s inherited patterns
- VITA™ Method (my formal training) — Trauma-aware, tantra-rooted, truth-based
You don’t just learn about self-love.
You become a woman who loves herself.
Investment
After this first round with Founding Members, the public price will be 2755€+
Your Investment as a Founding Member : 1755€ (payable in installments)
There is a reason why I give a discount for Founding Members. We will work together in close collaboration to bring deep transformation in your life as you Marry Yourself. In return, I ask for:
- Your full presence
- Honest feedback to help me improve the programme for the next rounds
- A testimonial if this work changes your life (it will !)
This is the moment
If you’re done feeling like too much and never enough, If you’re done waiting to be chosen, If you feel the whisper in your chest that says: “It’s time I Marry Myself”
FAQs
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Email me ! 👉
Name *E-mail *E-mailMessage *“Marrying yourself doesn’t mean you stop relating to others. It means you stop abandoning yourself inside them”.
Julie Baranski